Monthly Archive for July, 2008

Part 2: a hypothetical hiring scenario, starring John McCain

Imagine it.  You have a shot at your dream job.  You’ve spent decades of your life imaging what it would be like to hold that job, fantasizing about the mark you would leave.  The interview process is a veritable gauntlet.   Countless candidates will join you at the beginning, but like most jobs. . . there can be only one.

A cool, calm, collected candidate would prep earnestly for the multiple rounds of interviewing.  He would extensively research all facets of the company and understand the challenges and opportunities that sat on the front and back burners.  After hiring someone to polish the presentation of his own hard and soft skills, as well as experiences, he’d finalize his pitch.  He’d be ready to explain his vision for the position and what he brings to the table, to as many people as needed, to land the Dream.

And then there’s John McCain. He seems to be running for class bully or tantrum Tommy instead of President of the United States. Can you imagine interviewing for any job in which, pillorying the competition, or whining about him, would be more likely to yield an offer than making a great case for one’s own ability to do the job better than anyone else?  How exacerbating your short comings would give you the win?  You wouldn’t come close to making the final cut.

These latest ad attacks on Obama are the projections of an insecure candidate, unable to fine tune his pitch for a job he wants.  McCain is bitterly reminded that there once was a lot of good will worldwide towards the American people, sentiments Obama seems capable of stoking, but McCain is not. With bloggers repudiating media reports that Obama has a problem with female and Hispanic voters and with the youth vote solidly on the side of Team Obama, who’s left?  Angry, white, aging men and/or die-hard Republicans?

McCain can’t excite America’s hiring managers — the voters. Even more dangerous, he insults them.  In the past month, he has told voters that the problems with our nation are “psychological,” and his then-surrogate Gramm called America “a nation of whiners.” This rhetoric, despite predictions from analysts that our nation has not come close to rock bottom.

McCain can’t find his bearings because he can’t pass the Commander-in-Chief test.  These latest attack ads, that say nothing of McCain’s positives, reek of desperation; in job hunts, desperation is fatal.


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Right resume? Your job search is on!

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We recently touched upon the life coaching industry (Parts 1, 2, 3). Since Brazen Careerist focuses on professional development, I thought it might be useful exercise to visit a few people who guide the job search process.

If you’re like me, you’re skeptical about paying for someone to help you find a job.  But a trusted career advisor, or 3,  can make your transition from student to worker bee or from one industry to another less painful.

What can you expect from job search advisors?  According to Miriam Salpeter:

Typically, my clients work with me to jump-start a search – they need a resume and tips regarding how to get started. My goal is to “teach a client to fish.” In other words, I give job seekers key tools (a resume and cover letter) and then give them the resources they need to write their next cover letters and update their transformed resumes. I coach about how to look for a job and how to interview well.  This typically takes a few sessions at most.

Sure, you can buy lots of how-to books that proclaim to help you put your best foot forward.  But a resume writer can make it a lot easier, and Lauren Hasson offers 3 reasons to invest in one.

1. It’ll save you hours and hours and hours of time! As professionals who do this full-time, résumé writers have the skills and experience to knock out killer résumés in as little as two hours — which would take most people weeks to do right.

2. More importantly, they know what employers are looking for. To be perfectly honest, your résumé only has a few seconds to tell the employer why they should hire you. A résumé pro knows how to get your key selling points across quickly and clearly.

3. A professional can give you an objective look at your qualifications. Let’s face it: writing about yourself is not easy. And even though you know yourself pretty well, it’s almost impossible to be objective in this situation. You can really use someone who’s on your side, and who also knows the tricks of the trade.

As I’ve learned through personal experience, an outsider can often draw a better picture of you than you can.  Rarely are we the best judges of our won worth because we all have stumbling blocks and sensitive spots that sometimes shadow your true self.  Just like your friends and family might describe you differently than you would yourself, a resume writer might be better able to get the you the outside world sees.

Lauren shares

I see a lot of “do-it-yourself” résumés that inadvertently come off as either too humble or too boastful — and that’s only because we all have trouble being objective when we write about ourselves. You may not be able to see things — valuable, persuasive things! — that a highly trained outsider can quickly pick up on . . .

[A] client of mine had some trouble “accentuating the positive.” She had gone to a decent school, got an average GPA but had great grades in her major. She wanted to go into marketing but she thought the fact that she spent most of her summers working at a camp — rather than, say, a marketing firm — wouldn’t impress employers. She said to me, “Do I have any chance of getting noticed?”


Yes! But, like I told her, it’s all in how you present your qualifications. Here’s how I positioned her: She attended a reputable school, had great grades in a demanding major, and demonstrated her dependability and work ethic through consistent employment. Sounds better, doesn’t it? And it will probably attract more employers than the overly humble approach!

As with other forms of life coaching there are countless career advisers proclaiming to be your best option.  Much like with designer labels, sticker price isn’t necessarily a guarantee of quality.  So what should you be looking for in a resume and job search expert?

When you’re for someone to guide you through your quarterlife crisis or break with emotional eating, you’re probably looking for a coach that has struggled with the same issues.  But job hunting?  Look around you.  Instead, look for a coach that can demonstrate he or she knows the job market for the industries you’re interested in.

A veteran in the industry, Miriam comments

I believe that work experience as a head of a University career center (as in my case), recruiting experience, and human resources backgrounds may help qualify someone to offer advice regarding a resume and job hunt.

It is most important to ensure that a potential coach is current with trends for today’s market. Someone who recruited for years but doesn’t even have a linkedin profile may not be up-to-date on what is happening in the workplace today. (In my case, I maintain an advisory board of industry experts and constantly follow news regarding trends.) Evaluate if the coach is aware of a variety of job search and resume writing techniques. Ask questions. For example, if the coach doesn’t know about video resumes and can’t confidently explain why they are or are not a good choice for you, you should find another coach.

Miriam makes a great point. Have you ever met someone who proclaims to be an expert when it comes to a certain topic?  The more you talk to that person, you realize you know more about that topic than he does.  When you’re job hunting, you want to avoid that scenario as you seek advice.

As a relative newcomer to the field, Lauren is a:

a bona fide read-a-holic (I read all the college career advice books so my clients don’t have to!).

I also keep in regular touch with recruiters and HR professionals, so I can understand exactly what they’re looking for in candidates. And I’m constantly “talking shop” with other résumé writers to exchange ideas and best practices.

We’re all looking for a job we can be passionate about, so make sure you’re hiring a job search professional that is just as excited about their work.

And resume advisers shouldn’t be keeping all their tips under lock and key until they have your paypal payment.  My friends and I have signed up for free teleseminars on resume writing that are nothing more than informercials for what the host could do for you for $X hundred.  The barker will tease you with vague references to how she can help you, much like a politician, but won’t provide concrete examples.   It’s a waste of your time.

Instead, seek out their websites and read their blogs.  Miriam notes

I believe a blog is an ideal way to demonstrate expertise in a subject matter. Does the coach give advice that resonates with you? Does he or she blog once a month or several times a week? I believe that one indication of a coach’s qualifications is his or her ability to confidently and competently blog several times a week and dispense advice that seems on target for the client.

Remember the proof is in the pudding.  Miriam reminds readers to ask for “‘before’ and ‘after’ samples of resumes.” If you don’t like the work this consultant has done for others, chances are you aren’t going to be happy with the results on your own resume makeover.

Once you’re happy with your resume, you’ll want to share it with the world.  Head over to Blackbird Tees, home of the Resume Tee.  Pick the catchy slogan of your choice, upload your resume  and engage in some shameless self-promotion by literally wearing your resume on your back.

Until the end of September you can enjoy a 15% discount on your Blackbird Tees order using the code “brazen” at check out.

I’d like to thank our visiting experts.  Leave your questions in the comments, and I’ll be sure to have them follow up.

Miriam Salpeter is a Career Action Coach.  She helps “clients approach what can be a difficult situation (looking for a job) with confidence, clarity and know-how. Part of that involves writing a great resume, the other parts involve sharing information, tools and other resources to make sure the client is well prepared to be successful.”

The Résumé Girl, aka Lauren Hasson, helps college students and recent graduates all over the country land their dream job. If you’re setting out on your first big job or internship search, The Résumé Girl can not only write your résumé for you — she’ll also give you one-on-one interview coaching and tons of real-world advice.

Disclaimer: I have never been a paying client of either of today’s experts.

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Part One: Down and Out with the McCain campaign

McCain can’t catch a break if the past week is anything to go by.  I’d feel sorry for him, if I wasn’t so concerned I’d be held a slave to my uterus and not be paid equally for my work because of a lack of “training and education” should he be elected.

My autopsy of McCain gaffes begins with today’s eloquent and succinct discussion of gay adoption.

On This Week, George Stephanopoulos asks McCain to clarify his position on gay adoption.  My transcription might not be word for word, but I’ve double checked for correct intended meaning.

George:  What is your position on gay adoption?  You told the New York Times that you were against it, even in cases when the children couldn’t find another home. But then your staff backtracked a bit.  What is your position?

McCain: My position is it’s not the reason I am running for President of the United States, and I think two parent families are what’s best for America.

It’s actually rather irrelevant that it’s not the prime reason he’s running for President. American citizens are entitled to know how McInsensitive feels about a variety of issues, so that they can make an education decision based on a well rounded understanding of the candidates. This isn’t the $25,000 pyramid, John, you don’t get to pass.

Two parent families. . . how do 2 homosexuals in a committed relationship not constitute two parent familes? Recent studies show gay couples can be just as satisfied and committed in their partnerships as heterosexuals.

McCain: I think that’s it’s important for us to  emphasize family values but I think it’s very important to understand that we have other challenges too.  I’m running for president of the United States because I want to help with family values. And I think family values are important when we have two parent families that are parents that are the traditional family.

Look! . . he wants to promote family values.  Clearly, a man who abandons his then-disabled wife, daughter and two adopted sons to whoop it up with a then-hot, wealthy, younger beer distributor heiress understands family values.  That he lied about beginning his relationship with Cindy, while still married to Carol, to cover up being a scoundrel in no way damages his integrity.

Understandably, after 8 years of the Bush administration, McCain wouldn’t consider integrity too important a trait in a leader.

George: But there are several hundred thousand children without a home and if a gay couple wants to adopt them, what’s wrong with that?

McCain: I am for the values that 2 parent families, the traditional family represent.

Ah. . . two parents equal man + woman in McCain land. Obesity is contagious; homosexuality is a genetically and pre-natal environment determined condition.

George: So you’re against gay adoption?

McCain: I am for the values and priciples that 2 parent families represent, and I also do point out that many of these decisions are made by the states as well. I will do everything I can to encourage adoption and to encourage all of the things that keeps families together including educational opportunities, including a better economy, job creation. And I’m running for President because I want to help families in America and one of my positions is that I believe that that family values and family traditions are preserved

Just say, yes, George.  It would have saved us all some time.  The rambling doesn’t make your stance more convincing. No doubt you’ve referred to the experts on this topic.  But wait!   Virtually all child welfare agencies support gay adoption if it means placing kids in the system with permanent families.

Yes, Florida banned gay adoption, but they also approve of abstinence-only education despite that fact teens there think Clorox Bleach shots prevent HIV transmission and Mountain Dew is a contraceptive.  It’s not a state playing with a full deck, nor does it represent most of the country.

In the past decade, Americans have grown more comfortable with gay marriage and adoption and polling continues to trend in a positive direction. Californians are expected to vote down a ban on gay marriage this fall.  And three quarters of Americans think it’s time to pull the plug on the don’t ask, don’t tell policy.

Ban gay adoption? You might as well try to ban divorce.  Forget I said that, I don’t want to give you any crazy ideas!

I know you’re trying to straddle a pointy fence without spearing yourself.  The Moderates that still believe you’re a maverick aren’t a large enough pool to get you elected, and the Far Right is losing steam, what with its Gen Y community starting to think there’s more to elections that banning abortion.  You’re trying to be the Every Man, but if fact, you just might wind up alienating both halves of your “base”.

Despite your bad luck this past week, it’s no wonder the GOP picked you as their candidate in 2008. Because being an adulterer who left his wife for another woman is much better option than the “family values” espoused by the closet gays and elected officials who enjoy a bit of “paid” female companionship in their spare time.

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WTF files: Sublime on "Date Rape"

Have you heard the song “Date Rape” (2007 1996) by a band called Sublime?  I heard it for the first time while driving to the grocery store this evening.

At first I was appalled.

That’s when things got out of control.
She didn’t want to, he had his way.
She said, “Let’s Go”
He said, “No Way!”
Come on babe it’s your lucky day.
Shut your mouth, were gonna do it my way.
Come on baby don’t be afraid,
if it wasn’t for date rape I’d never get laid.

But then I began to reconsider. The perpetrator was found guilty and sent to prison where the man in subsequently raped, which suggests old-school, eye-for-an-eye justice.   The song is meant to be a date rape deterrent.

The next day she went to her drawer, look up her local attorney at law,
went to the phone and filed the police report and then she took the guy’s ass to court.
Well, the day he stood in front of the judge he screamed, ” She lies that little slut!”
The judge knew that he was full of shit and he gave him 25 years
And now his heart is filled with tears.

One night in jail it was getting late.
He was butt-raped by a large inmate, and he screamed.
But the guards paid no attention to his cries.

But in the end, the singer noted

The moral of the date rape story, it does not pay to be drunk and horny.

That statement seems to imply it’s not the wrongness of raping a woman, but the man getting caught and being raped himself is the misfortunate outcome to avoid when drunk and horny.

In trying to fairly evaluate the track, I searched for the music video which predictably accompanied this ditty.  Compliments of Universal Music Group, (which got on board the YouTube band wagon in 2007. . . the major labels are incredibly slow learners):

The tone of a music video is probably a better mean of judging whether the band was making light of date rape or note, since it gives the artists an opportunity to provide a visual companion to the song.
Their playful enactment of one such date rape and the aftermath, featuring Ron Jeremy as the burly prisoner to rape the man found guilty, didn’t do much to redeem my opinion of the songwriters.

According to the Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network

Factoring in unreported rapes, about 6% of rapists will ever spend a day in jail.

15 of 16 walk free.

A joking song about rape is inappropriate under any circumstances.

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Quick Tips: Cutting Back on Junk Mail

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There is nothing worse than coming to home to a full mailbox that’s devoid of anything useful.  From supermarket flyers to catalogs to credit card offers, I’m inundated daily with mail that hits the recycling bin without being read.

ForestEthics is a non-profit dedicating to shaking up the paper industry and protecting the environment.  They make it easy to empty your mailbox the easy — getting taken off major junk mailing lists.

Fill in your address on their site and generate a personalized PDF for you to download and print. The document includes addressed forms to 14 different junk mailers.  You’ll need 14 envelopes and stamps.  Take ten minutes out of your day and save a tree from the paper mill.

Economy got you down :(   Cut off those unsolicited credit card and insurance offers as well. The Federal Trade Commission gives two thumbs up to OptOutPreScreen.

Check out optoutprescreen or call them at 1-888-5-OPT-OUT.  You can opt opt in 5 year intervals or permanently.  Should you ever want to receive offers again, you can opt back in.

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Interesting posts for you to check out

White House trying to define contraceptives as abortion. Hilary Clinton condemns the move ; sign her petition

Measuring the effectiveness of the anti-choice/pro-life agenda

McSexist: McCain’s War on Women

More than 60% of skin care products are absorbed by the skin. Do you know what’s in yours?

The Stanford Prison Experiment and Police Tasering Incidents

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In 1971, Stanford researchers had to cut short a legendary experiment looking at prison psychology and power dynamics.  After advertising and screening candidates, the research team selected 24 college males to take part in the prison life study.  Twelve participants were arrested and booked exactly like actual suspects before being incarcerated in a mock prison. The other twelve served as prison guards and were ” were free, within limits, to do whatever they thought was necessary to maintain law and order in the prison and to command the respect of the prisoners.”  The guards quickly turned to psychological games to keep prisoners in line; prisoners quickly adopted the behavior normal in incarcerated males.

By the end:

There were three types of guards. First, there were tough but fair guards who followed prison rules. Second, there were “good guys” who did little favors for the prisoners and never punished them. And finally, about a third of the guards were hostile, arbitrary, and inventive in their forms of prisoner humiliation. These guards appeared to thoroughly enjoy the power they wielded, yet none of our preliminary personality tests were able to predict this behavior.

Given the rash of tasering incidents by law enforcement professionals nationwide, it seems these three types are present in all aspects of the criminal justice system.   Let’s consider some of the reports on American keepers of the peace. . .

Dayton, OhioPolice use taser on blind woman with cancer

Police visit her home in search of her son, a criminal suspect. Scared blind woman lashes out — having been robbed by burglars using the same ruse once before — and is tasered into submission.

Several armed police personal, who likely have some sort of conflict management training, felt the best means of defusing the situation would be to taser a weaponless, blind woman.

UtahMan tasered in back for refusing to accept a ticket for a traffic violation

Disagreeing with an officer, a man refuses to accept a speeding ticket.  After being asked to step out of the vehicle, the unarmed driver walks away from the officer and is tasered. The officer arrests the man for not following directions, while the man rationally explains why he shouldn’t be issued a ticket.

Bush & Co. will be signing this officer up as their first mate on the Good Ship Martial Law.  Just because a weapon can’t kill some one, doesn’t mean you get to point it at anyone who won’t listen to you.   I’m imagining elementary schools with taser-armed teachers. . .

Winfield, LousianaBlack man tasered 9 TIMES IN 14 MINUTES by white cop

Suspect Pikes chased and captured (with help of taser), but dies en route to the station. Arresting officers claims Pikes complained of asthma and admitted to being high on crack cocain and PCP.  An autopsy refutes both of those conditions, and  a forensic pathologist confirms that the 9 applications of the taser (50,000 volts a piece) killed the young man.

Pikes was not resisting arrest.  He was handcuffed while face down on the pavement.  When did did respond quick enough to the officer’s request to stand he was shocked in the back.  He administered 6 more shocks to Pikes who writhed in pain on the ground, instead of stood up at the officer’s request.  The final 2 shocks were administered after Pikes had fallen unconscious.

Sounds like a dangerous criminal to me.  Handcuffed and stationary.  And an unconscious man — there’s not telling what kind of damage he could do!  And good job, officer Nugent, using an old stereotype of African-Americans to cover up your crime — next time, you might want to get the coroner in on the game too.

Chickaming, MichiganMichigan Police taser Durango newlyweds during reception

What’s a wedding reception without “assault and battery, disorderly conduct, resisting and obstruction of police officers, and damage to property” charges?

Seriously?!  The only way the police officers could think of to handle rowdy party animals is to taser them?  The odds typically are in favor of the sober person who has control over their faculties versus the staggering inebriated individuals.  It shouldn’t be too hard to wrangle the wedding guests, especially since most dispersed pretty quickly.

Are you shaking your head yet?

Taser International promotes tasers as a means of subduing out of control suspects.  As Canadian police psychologist Mike Webster notes

“My own opinion on this is that Canadian law enforcement, and its American brothers and sisters, have been brainwashed by companies like Taser International and the Institute for the Prevention of In-custody Deaths,” he added.

“These organizations have created a virtual world replete with avatars that wander about with the potential to manifest a horrific condition characterized by profuse sweating, superhuman strength and a penchant for smashing glass that appeals to well-meaning but psychologically unsophisticated police personnel,” Webster said.

Taser International is serving the same role as Stanford researchers who told their subjects to stay in control of the situation however they need to.   And when looking at their options to take back the upper hand, it’s far too easy for police to choose the option that eliminates the unruly quickly.  In the long run, it’s very dangerous to grant easy access to a tool that can shock and awe the norm.

“When you think the only tool you have is a hammer, then the whole world begins looking like a nail,” Webster told the inquiry in Vancouver.

Seems like police psychologists should be removing officers from field duty that fall into that third category of guard discovered in the Stanford Prison Experiment.  Again,

about a third of the guards were hostile, arbitrary, and inventive in their forms of prisoner humiliation. These guards appeared to thoroughly enjoy the power they wielded, yet none of our preliminary personality tests were able to predict this behavior.

To maintain the integrity of the police force, and the keep up a more believeable sense of justice — those increasingly trigger happy officers need to be relieved from duty before they’re tasering the patently pregnant and non-suspects to maintain their authority through fear.  It should happen sooner, rather than later, because deaf, naked men are no longer off limits.

Related Post: Fear of Exposure suggests you might be doing something wrong

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Feminist Daily News hacked?

I’ve subscribed to the Feminist Majority’s Feminist Daily News RSS Feed for quite a while.  A little after 5pm Thursday evening, the image of part of what I would assume is a late term aborted fetus ( I can’t say I’ve every actually stumbled upon one) came through with the note “Not a human, just a fetus. How long until we justify killing the old, the sick, any person without a champion?”

I was initially very confused — did the Feminist Majority change their platform midafternoon?
Then I realized, something was very wrong here. It definitely is a post that belongs on a pro-life feed. Clicking on the hyperlink took me to a dead page.

So I called the LA office, which was still open.   Not knowing who to ask for, I explained the situation to the person who answered the phone.  There was much gasping on her end; I forwarded her a copy.

I suspect there will be some note of explanation coming from the Feminist Majority today.

In the future, I hope they police their passwords and computer networks a wee bit better.

And to the pro-life “activist” likely behind this image sent to thousands of Feminist Majority supporters: how about you try and be a bit more realistic.  Per a 2000 survey by the Alan Guttmacher Institute, late term abortions count for less than 1/5 of 1% of abortions in the US, typically in cases of major medical issues.   Using the image of a later term aborted fetus hyperbolizes abortion.  That outcome is an extreme image meant to shock and disturb, but it doesn’t portray the reality of virtually every woman who has an abortion in this country.

UPDATE: no follow up from the Feminist Majority.  But the the picture is still in my feed.

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The Cost of Empire

Here’s a recommended read for you.  This lengthly piece at Jon Taplin’s blog “ties our current economic crisis to the thirty year buildup of defense spending since the Reagan Presidency.”

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