Monthly Archive for January, 2009
One of my favorite reads of 2008 was the long ago book Anatomy of Love: A Natural History of Mating, Marriage, and Why We Stray by Helen Fisher.
In 2006 she gave a talk at the annual elitist TED conference about the biochemical and behavioral markers of romantic love, as well as gender differences. If you’re not likely to read the book, take 20 minutes of your day to watch the video.
Do the same rules apply to you?
I’m actually not sure how I stumbled across the webisode series Imaginary Bitches, but I’m glad that I did.
It’s a humorous take on the the modern day struggle to be a single lady when all your friends are in relationships. Lead singleton Eden creates two imaginary friends that fill the void left by her unavailable best friends. Hijinks and laughter ensue.
Here’s the Season 1 playlist.
photo by photocapy
I’m doing some tidying up of my unread book piles, pulling out titles that peaked my interest a few years ago, but that I’m no longer inclined to need. Given the rise of the used book market, it isn’t worth posting to half.com, when I’m likely to bring in $1 or less for most of the tomes I want to send on to their next home.
The next best thing to money is another book, which is why I list books in need of a good home at BookMooch. At BookMooch I earn points for each book I send to a fellow member. In turn, I get to use those points to mooch books from other users.
But like any retailer experiences, some books just aren’t flying off the shelves in your chosen location or demographic. Thus, I’ve been looking for alternative places to distribute books in need of new homes.
Your local library
The most obvious choice for donation is your local library, most of which will give you a receipt that you can probably use to write off the donation come tax time. Older books aren’t likely to go into circulation, but they may wind up being sold as part of the regular used book sale fundraising.
For those of you looking for more creative places to donate your used books, there are plenty of options.
Prisons
Looking to get rid of old college textbooks? Already solved that quarterlife crisis and don’t need those self-help books any more? Look no further than your local prison. While the rules vary from prison to prison, many accept a variety of educational and recreational reading materials, since their library budgets are limited.
We all know the resale value of college text books is limited since new editions with different pagination are constantly being issued. Here’s an opportunity to really pay it forward.
- Books Behind Bars provides information about what types of reading materials are accepted by prisons all around the country and to whom you should ship your donation
Prisons also gladly accept used fiction, particularly paperback since it’s easier to ship.
- Books to Prisoners is a volunteer organization that ships requested titles to individual prisoners nationwide. They send out close to 10,000 books a year are are always looking to replenish their stockpile.
Troops
People are still looking for ways to support the troops abroad. Shipping your collection of Stephen King paperbacks to deployed soldiers is one way to go.
Low-income kids
Basic literacy will forever be a key component of early childhood education. Unfortunately not all school libraries are well-stocked and not all families can afford to buy books for home. These groups try to put books in the hands of young learners throughout the country. So if you have gently used children’s titles to get out of the house, consider these two groups.
- Books First distributed more than 15,000 books to teachers and their classes in 2007, benefiting more than 2000 pupils.
- Project Nightlight reaches out to homeless children, providing “individual tote bags each filled with a security blanket, an age-appropriate book, and a stuffed animal to children (ages 0-10) in homeless shelters.” They are always looking for like new books to be included in their care packages; if you’re as obsessive about your books as I am about mine, most of them are like new.
When all else fails, Got Books? The group ensures no books winds up in a landfill. Some books they sell, donating half the proceeds to a variety of charities, and others they donate to schools.
graphic by jared
I’ve been thinking about the background research on that McKinsey study of Model Centered Leadership. Particularly the brief mention about how
men tend to build broader, shallower networks than women do and that the networks of men give them a wider range of resources for gaining knowledge and professional opportunities.
Given the very long arm of social networks, it seems as though the internet is helping to level the networking playing field for professional women. Women are definitely engaging online; for instance, 55% of FaceBook users are female.
How do the two relate? I read status updates on a regular basis indicating my friends and acquaintances are connecting with elementary school friends, long last college hall mates, former professors, etc.
Ten years ago, you had no way of keeping track of hundreds of tangential connections that you hold face or name recognition with, but little more. Now you can connect online with just about every person you meet in real time. . . not that you’d want to.
When you’re looking for a new job or a new house or a new boyfriend, your circle of connections has grown that much larger when you connect with people you liked from past chapters of your life, people you’d otherwise have lost touched with, if not for social networking.
Isn’t social networking allowing us all to build broad, shallow networks of acquaintances we can reach out to as needed? This natural evolution of the internet seems to be giving women the tools to be as competitive as men when it comes to networking.








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