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Waning empathy and the explosion in reality programming

Snooki at Seaside Heights NJphoto © 2010 Aaron | more info (via: Wylio)University of Michigan researchers are set to release a study  reporting a sharp decline in empathy over the last decade, with the trait steadily sputtering out over the past 3 decades.  As reported in a recent Scientific American article, “almost 75 percent of students today rate themselves as less empathic than the average student 30 years ago.”

Journalist Jamil Zaki suggests that a decline in fiction reading may be a contributing factor to this downward shift in sensitivity:

The types of information we consume have also shifted in recent decades; specifically, Americans have abandoned reading in droves. The number of adults who read literature for pleasure sank below 50 percent for the first time ever in the past 10 years, with the decrease occurring most sharply among college-age adults. And reading may be linked to empathy. In a study published earlier this year psychologist Raymond A. Mar of York University in Toronto and others demonstrated that the number of stories preschoolers read predicts their ability to understand the emotions of others. Mar has also shown that adults who read less fiction report themselves to be less empathic.

Instead, might we consider the number of hours young adults spend in front of television screens? In late 2009, the average American watched 4 hours and 49 minutes of programming each day, which is 20 percent more viewing than the decade prior. Earlier this year, the Kaiser Family Foundation reported that children, ages 8-18 years old, average 7 hours and 38 minutes of entertainment consumption each day, including 4 hours and 29 minutes of television.

Aligned with the recent plunge in empathy is the explosion of reality programming in the past decade. In 2010 alone, American Idol, Dancing with the Stars and Survivor: Heroes and Villains took 5 of the top 10 slots for prime time ratings; just 3 scripted shows made the list. From American Idol and The Biggest Loser to the Jersey Shore and Hell’s Kitchen, the revamped reality genre  captivates audiences with its harsh treatment and criticisms of contestants. Creative editing makes enemies and underdogs of participants. Friendly, innocuous reality shows like Trading Spaces and What Not to Wear don’t stand a chance against the often brutal depictions and set-ups taking place on network television.

The Snookies and Situations of the world are overdrawn caricatures of real people left behind on the cutting room floor. The Jillian Michaels-esque coaches and insult-handy judges earn their livings punishing those caricatures for an hour each week on screen in your living room. The predominant characters aren’t there as relatable reflections of our lives; they are objects for our entertainment. They are the gladiators in the collosseum headed toward mass graves as their winning streaks come to an end.

With literature, people experience the richness of characters whose lives are very different from our own. From the beginning to the end of a great book, you can put yourself in that time or place and share in the struggles and successes of protagonists meant to draw you in and connect with your innermost insecurities, dreams and emotions. It’s a multi-dimensional slice of life across a variety of classes, races and cultures that allow you to see how seemingly unsimilar people’s lives aren’t so different after all.

Instead of PBS and the umpteenth BBC adaptation of yet another Jane Austen novel, Americans are choosing to watch  fundamentally fake, carefully constructed, over-the-top behavior on reality programming, week-after-week, inspiring applications from those who seek entrenched Kardashian-level celebrity or the repeat of an Elizabeth Hasselbeck career transition. Can reality programming also explain  the increase in college student narcissism that coincides with the decline in empathy?

If reality television is but a fickle trend, like our shift from zombies to vampires, we can impatiently wait for its replacement and hope better stories are on the way. But if it’s here to stay, we need to find the conditioning anecdote to remedy the disconnect experienced.

How do you view participants of reality programming that you watch? Do they feel like relatable three-dimensional people to you? Or do you recognize them as media constructs in place to entertain you?

VOD: Seth Godin on blogging

Per Seth Godin, blogging every day is good because it improves your ability to communicate and your analytical skills.  Regardless of audience size, personal growth is a great reason to take up blogging.

Bonus: If you get good, you can expand your reach from a few people to being an influencer in the larger conversation.

Social technology: relationship hype or helper?

Settimana Internet @ Roma - 25 giugno, Internet e Anzianiphoto © 2009 Codice Internet | more info (via: Wylio)
Over at Brass Tack Thinking, Amber Naslund took to her blog to stress that virtual relationships are as valuable and meaningful as real world ones.

Human relationships have many facets. When they’re real, they’re not real because of the things we use to cultivate them. They’re real because the human bond is there, the connection that extends beyond the means. No tool, website, or thingamajig can take that away, and none can replace it entirely. When it happens, that bond between people – either personal or professional – is as real and genuine as the individuals themselves.

I’d echo the sentiments.

I’ve lived in a lot of places over the last 15 years, and as I, and my friends, have relocated we’ve taken to the technology of the times to keep our friendships alive. From instant messaging to free weekend minutes to Friendster to LinkedIn to Facebook to Twitter, social technologies have allowed me to stay in touch with people I’ve met in real time and in greater detail than the occasional email would permit.

Had there not been meaningful connections shaped by working, schooling, and playing together, there would be no reason to stay in touch.  Genuine interest in the lives and well-being of  friends exists whether I live 5 minutes on foot or 5 hours by plane away.  I probably interact with more people on a daily basis now than I did just a few years ago because social technology makes it so effortless.

On the flipside, through blogging and twitter, I’ve met a variety of people from around the country and abroad that have enriched my life. Given the scattered geography of my digitally-discovered connections, I likely would never have met them without technology. I know them as well as my real world connections, because of the endless banter that Twitter and Facebook allow.  And I’ll never ceased to be amazed when someone approaches me at a networking event to see if I’m THAT Andrea_Zak.

In fact, I’d argue that virtual relationships have made me a better friend in real time. As someone who has always been a bit guarded with new people, technology created a buffer zone that allowed me to get to know amazing folks.  Given my online connections tend to operate outside my real world social network, open interactions somehow felt safer — even though I realize the converse is probably true.

That distance allowed me to express myself freely in ways I was, at the time, too insecure to express to live people in my presence.  Having that space helped me build up the confidence to hold my values near and dear 24/7, not just when I’m chatting away with a semi-stranger that comments on my blog. Now I’m more likely to make genuine connections with people, because I’m more comfortable sharing of myself and build stronger bonds as a result.

Can the internet be an interminable waste land? You betcha.  But it can also be an electronic coffee clutch that keeps you in the know about the people that matter to you.

Social technology: relationship hype or helper?