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Favorite Reads in 2008

'Beach Reading' photo (c) 2008, Anne Adrian - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0/

I try to read about 50 books a year.  Sometimes a bit more, sometimes a bit less.  In all likelihood, I’ll get to another 4-8 books before New Year’s Day (since holidays are great days to curl up with a good book), so I may need come back and another title or two to the the list below.

But for now, the books below make my list of best reads this year.

Rather than give away the ending of a novel or write a precis of each non-fiction tome (which could each be a post until themselves), I’ve provided a brief paragraph summing up what you’ll find cover to cover.

Anatomy of Love: A Natural History of Mating, Marriage, and Why We Stray by Helen Fisher (NF) (added 1/2/09)

Though this book is about 15 years old, there’s still plenty of relevant study and anecdotal data to supporter Fisher’s hypotheses about love and reproduction.  It’s fascinating to read about certain behavioral patterns that appear across a variety of cultures and what common biochemical threads unite romantic relations regardless of what part of the world you are from.

The Scandal Plan: Or: How to Win the Presidency by Cheating on Your Wife by Bill Folman (F)

It’s an election year; I needed to be entertained.  A Presidential candidate is just too vanilla and uninteresting to the American people, so his campaign fabricates an affair and its exposure to drum up support from the American people.   A wag-the-dog scenario.

Kingdom Coming: The Rise of Christian Nationalism by Michelle Goldberg (NF)

Journalist Goldberg takes a look at Christian extremists and their efforts to infiltrate (quietly or openly) the infrastructure of our society, in order to slowly dissolve the separation of church and state.  Revisionist history would have you believe the found fathers sought theocracy, not the clear split between the government and religion which they actually saw as necessary after watching the divisive relations of the two in Europe.  Christian Nationalists continue the fight to bring intelligent design/creationism into schools whenever they can muster the community support.

The faith-based initiatives launched by Bush ( which Obama supports) funnels government money to religious groups for community work. Despite government funding, they are allowed to discriminate in hiring policies, with many groups choosing to only hire candidates who can embrace the Bible. . . Christian groups receive the bulk of this funding. In return, some leaders of this movement are working to systematically get supporters in places of power in government and education, so as to expand the reach of their theocratic goals.  A disturbing and enlightening read after seeing the power of the Christian Right in the 2000 and 2004 elections.

Intuition by Allegra Goodman (F)

Call it a continued passion for medical ethics stemming from my undergraduate years. . . but this book captivated me from beginning to end.  Researchers spend years toiling away in labs hoping to make a breakthrough that will yield a cure or a vaccine for cancer.   Can the pressure get to be too great?  Do scientists sometimes cut corners or hide discouraging data to move research forward?  What does that mean to the integrity of the research and the funding of the research itself?

The Shock Doctrine: The Rise of Disaster Capitalism by Naomi Klein (NF)

I’ve already blogged about Klein’s book. The $800 billion Wall Street bail out provides a great example of disaster capitalism at work in America.  After insisting that the world will come to a screeching halt without the bailout, legislators forked over the billions after negligible negotiating.  Shock and awe at work.  (PS. Here’s Klein’s defense against criticism from the libertarians/supporters of Friedman economics.)

The Elephant and the Dragon: The Rise of India and China and What It Means for All of Us by Robin Meredith (NF)

We live in a globalized economy.  With so many of our service jobs being outsourced to India and manufacturing jobs outsourced to China, you should be sure to understand the growth of the two economic behemoths over the last decade.  Meredith also gives you pause when considering the trajectory these countries are on and what it means for our future (globally and as Americans) and our access to the limited resources we need to keep our economies active.

How the Pro-Choice Movement Saved America by Cristina Page (NF)

Griswold v. Connecticut and Roe v. Wade changed America.  Access to birth control and the ability to plan a family meant a better quality of life for the next generation and a greater involvement of fathers in the parenting process.  Allowing women to get in and stay in the work force on their own terms shook up American culture for the better.   Legal access to birth control and abortion have greater significance than the sexual revolution, though pro-life leadership is typically rooted in controlling women’s sexuality.  (Page regularly blogs about reproductive issues for the Huffington Post)

When the Rivers Run Dry: Water — The Defining Crisis of the Twenty-First Century by Fred Pearce (NF)

Pearce reviews the state of the water supply around the world.  He looks at the dessication of once water-rich areas and the excess flooding in other regions that leave hundreds of thousands homeless.  In his travels he examines the technology (dams, aquifers, qanats, water seeding, drip irrigation, etc) and politics (pacts between states and countries that split water resources). Instead of forcing water to bend to the will of settlements, we should instead “go with the flow” and look to simpler technology used for thousands of years, as well as modify our infrastructure for more efficient use of water.

Good Grief by Lolly Winston (F)

An unexpected widow climbs out of a personal breakdown to relight her life passions and put her own needs on the front burner.  In focusing on her interest in baking, she launches a successful business and provides support to a troubled teen, helping them both get their lives back together.

Disclaimer: These books were not necessarily published in 2008. They do not necessarily belong on a list of best books ever, books to read before you die, or best kept secrets.    It’s just a list of the books I enjoyed most in this calendar year.

What books are on your own list of notable reads of 2008?

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How to lend support in times of crisis

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photo by dominikgolenia

My mom’s on-and-off best friend of the last 15 years rests on life support today. Over the weekend complications from emergency surgery for an aneurysm led to bleeding in the brain, and doctors told her family that recovery was unlikely. It seems that it’s less a matter of if the plug is pulled than when the family is ready to do so.

In discussing with my mom the tough decisions Ellen’s family faces and the unfairness of the situation, I’m reminded of the little ways those a few degrees removed can lend a hand in a time of crisis.

Phone Chains

Extended family and a network of friends would like to be kept in the loop about changes in the patient’s condition or details about memorial service plans.  Close family members are focused on the ill or beginning to grieve.

Volunteer to be the point person for people seeking information.  That way, a family member can check in with you once or twice a day and everyone else can check in with you.  It lifts a huge burden off those closest to the sick or recently deceased.

Babysitting

Parents sometimes need a break when juggling young kids and grandma in the hospital.

Offer to take the kids to the park, the movies or the mall for a few hours to give the parents the opportunity to either take a break or put their full focus on the sick, dying or deceased loved one.

Food

When family members are rotating shifts at a loved one’s bed side, they’re not planning their 3 square meals.  Most hospital food leaves much to be desired.  Soup and sandwiches are easy to drop off for those relatives.

When they get home from a long day at the hospital or in the days following funeral proceedings, prepping a meal is not what anyone wants to do. Schedule a time to drop off one pan meals that are easy to cook or reheat, like ziti, minestrone soup, lasagna and chicken marsala.

For those of you not particularly adept in the kitchen, gift certificates to local restaurants and meal services that deliver also make difference.

Housework

When dealing with the realities of a prolonged illness, the less important household chores fall by the wayside.   Cleaning house takes energy and effort, which those holding a family together don’t have to spare.

For close family and friends, volunteer to come over on a Saturday to change the linens, to vacuum and to do a few loads of laundry.   Alternately, you could pay for several hours of a cleaning service to do the same at the home owner’s or renter’s convenience.

Unfortunately, prolonged terminal illnesses, freak accidents, and sudden deaths happen, but you can try to help lighten the load a bit for those coping.   How do you lend a hand?

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Project Angel Food's Divine Design 2008

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One of the best designer sales (for charitable purposes) takes place next month in Los Angeles. Divine Design is worth adding to your calendar.

Two years ago I picked up a $375 skirt for $75; it’s swooshiness never fails to make me smile, so I know I’ll be getting years and years of use out of it.  I also grabbed several $90 tank tops for just $10 apiece.

What:

Divine Design is an annual pre-holiday shopping event featuring designer clothes, shoes, cosmetics, and furniture. 100% of proceeds benefit Project Angel Food.

The designer items are the latest from trendy lines like Trina Turk,  Theory, Dolce & Gabbana,  Jimmy Choo, and Smashbox Cosmetics.

Where

9900 Wilshire Blvd (old Robinson’s May location), Beverly Hills 90210

When

VIP Early Shopping December 4th, 6pm -8pm, with $100 ticket purchase

Friday, December 5, 11am – 8pm
Saturday, December 6, 11am-8pm
Sunday, December 7, 11am – 8pm
Monday, December 8, 11am-8pm

The discount is usually progressive, meaning on Friday items should be 50% off, Saturday 60%, Sunday 70% and Monday 80%.

Tickets:

Tickets are available online for $15 or at the door for $25 ($10 off admission coupon)

Bonus:

Just 500 Raffle tickets are available to those of you who’d like to drive home in a Prius. For a $100 ticket, you’re odds of winning a 2-year lease on a 2009 Prius are way better than that of winning the state lottery.

Beneficiary:

Project Angel Food is unique: we are the only, free meal-delivery program that serves men, women and children debilitated by HIV/AIDS, cancer, and other life-threatening illnesses throughout Los Angeles County. Thanks to a devoted corps of volunteers, every day Project Angel Food cooks and delivers more than 1,400 to people in need throughout our community. We act out of a sense of urgency because hunger and illness do not wait. The people we serve range in age from 12 to 97 years.

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Zak's Favorite Things for 2008

Welcome to the 2nd annual publication of Zak’s Favorite Things.

There aren’t strict qualifications to make the list.  Some of these items are on my wish list, and some I already own and love. Others I stumbled across on the web and couldn’t help but investigate further.

ActiveHold Technology

As a gym rat, my hair is either in a ponytail or braids during my workout.  As any woman with long hair can attest, fashionable hair elastics typically don’t have staying power: they fall off, and they stretch out.  While I’ve yet to find a product that perpetually springs back to its original size,  I|M offers elasticized bands that you won’t lose half way through your workout or on your way home.  Their “ActiveHold Technology” runs a rubber tread through their I|M Active products.  You avoid the painful dislodgement of a typical rubber band, but the tread grips enough to keep your hair accessories in place.  ($4.99 for 4 thick bands, 8 thin or medium bands)

Gummy Bears, err Fruit Slices, are good for you!

Hero Nutritionals created Slice of Life, a line of gummy vitamins for adults.  Surely I’m not alone in envying all the tasty chewable and gummy vitamins available to children.  Gummy vitamins feed your inner child.  While not the most comprehensive multi-vitamin on the market, looking forward to gummy slices means I’m more apt to remember to take calcium and wheat grass supplements as well.  (Suggested retail $19.99 for a 30-day supply, but I found them for $11.95)

Lip Service

In 2005, custom cosmetic site reflect.com shut down. I stocked up on my favorite lipstick as they shipped their final orders.  I recently accepted I needed to find a new lipstick brand or brands because I have reached the dregs of my final tube from reflect.com. The berry tones I love are really hard to find; apparently, they don’t flatter most complexions.  My search brought me to two brands I recommend.

Bare Escentuals offers a 100% natural lipstick line. No chemical additives or preservatives.  The lipstick applies a bit dryer than other lipsticks I tried, but a layer of lip gloss solves the problem.  It’s supposed to “hug” your lips for 6 hours (if you’re a talker, divide by 2).   Red Zin is my hue of choice, held in a curvy, but a tad oversized cylinder. ($15 per tube)

Launched in 1991, Fresh is just reaching the West Coast markets.  Stand alone stores have popped up in Los Angeles in the past couple of years.   Though a bit more expensive than I’d prefer ($22/tube), their lipsticks slide on like butter; no gloss needed.  You can’t put a price tag on sexy, silky lips.  Cranberry Lemonade is my color of choice.

PS. My favorite lip gloss? Try Kiehl’s for slight sparkle and subtle mango flavor.

Hanes Tees

Threadless offers great graphic tees, but Hanes is the ticket if you need basic solid tees.  I’ve never understood how some people pay $100 for a t-shirt, when you can get quality at a much more affordable price. I’m particularly fond of their 3/4 sleeve boatneck t-shirt ($16); so much so, that I have it in 3 colors. Hanes keeps you covered in fitted and relaxed t-shirts, tanks and camisoles, as well as comfy loungewear for rainy weekends in.

Douglass Fudge

photo from www.douglasscandies.com

Family vacations as a child meant a road trip to the Jersey shore.  My family stayed in the same motel every year for more than a decade.  The best part of the trip was the last day’s stop at Douglass Fudge, famous for its saltwater taffy and, obviously, fudge. All week long we’d snag samples as we passed the store each night, and on the final day, before the drive home, my mom would buy a variety of Douglass products by request for various members of the family.  If you’re a fudge person, I recommend their coconut cream and chocolate marshmallow flavors; for saltwater taffy, take the sampler.

Still, my favorite sweet is their molasses paddle — a dark chocolate-covered molasses caramel on a stick.  You can pick up a box of 6 for $16.50 + shipping.  I like to cut them up in 8 pieces and freeze them, so I can enjoy a square a day.

Warning: These are super chewy and sticky, so be careful if you have a lot of fillings.

PS to Mom: Hint Hint, X-mas is coming!

Wacky Walk’r

The Urban Wacky Walk’r is a stretch rubber leash that doubles in length from 3 to 6 feet as you dog applies forward pressure.  The give of the rubber is much easier on your joints when your dog tries to make a dash for it, but its stretch limitations means it keeps your dog in line and at your side.

Fear not that the rubber could snap, all leashers are reinforced with an inner safety line just in case.  They come in a variety of funky colors, so you can keep your dog both safe and styling. This awesome line of leashes runs between $21-$31 depending upon the size of the dog.  (Amazon offers a 15% discount off typical retail prices)

Pomegranate

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Pomegranates are my favorite fruit, making the POM Wonderful brand icon one I look forward to each winter when pomegranates come into season.

Since quality pomegranate seeds aren’t available year round,  Archipelago Botanicals’ Pomegranate Body Collection  provides an olfactory fix.  I’m particularly enamored with their sugar body scrub. With a liberal inclusion of fragrant oils, you and your apartment will smell fabulous for hours after you shower, and you’ll have softer skin to show for it.   ($25-$35 depending on retailer)

Antica Farmacista

I didn’t wear perfume for a very long time because I broke out into burning red rashes shortly after application. Then I discovered Antica Farmacista, which is heavy on essential oils and natural ingredients.  A little goes a long way, lasting up to 8 hours.  I’m a fan of the Vanilla, Boubon, & Mandarin scent, but there are 12 to choose from.  I lucked out and picked my first bottle up on clearance from a retailer that was no longer carrying the line, but it’s well worth the sticker price of $58 for a bottle.

YogaMatic custom mats

Regulars in mind-body fitness classes of all sorts tend to own their own mats.  After considering the germs and bacteria hanging out on gym-owned mats, they invest in their own.  And yoga mats can tell you a lot about a person.  Do they like solids or prints, thick or thin mats, textured or smooth, muted or bold colors?  You can make a statement with a custom printed mat from yogamatic. Upload a jpg, and for $85+ shipping you can have the most unique mat in class.

Customize a muppet

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photo by carlosfpardo

This Christmas FAO Schwarz is offering the Muppet What Not Workshop. (What Nots are background players in muppet shows.)  Start with an orange, blue or green muppet.  Customize the eyes and a nose, as well as hair.  And then pick out attire, like a hoodie sweatshirt.  Instead of just singing along to the Avenue Q soundtrack, you can act it out! ($90 + shipping)

Bacon-of-the Month Club

bacon

photo by shawnzam

Several articles this summer pointed to Bacon as the hot new food trend. Bacon: it’s so bad for you, it’s good.  Thus, I present The Grateful Palate’s Bacon-of-the month club.  For $275 (inclusive of shipping), you’ll receive a monthly delivery of artisan bacon along with a variety of schwag, including site discounts, a monthly comic strip,  a rubber pig and snout, tee and pen. Oink!

For a more affordable bacon fix, try Mo’s Bacon Bar by Vosges Chocolate, which combines salty bacon pieces with milk chocolate. ($7.50 on the Vosges website)

Le Fin

What new products or old favorites made your list this year?

Here’s a shortcut to my 2007 list.

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The power of freebies and community service

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I spent Tuesday night and Wednesday at the California Governor’s Conference for Women.   It’s my second year volunteering with a non-profit at their booth in the exhibitor’s hall.

Thus, my conference experience is a bit different than those that bought tickets or were given ones by their employers.

There are two primary types of exhibitors — corporations and nonprofits.  Non-profits rent booths to raise the profile of their organizations and philanthropic work, as well as to add as many names as possible to their e-mail lists. With non-profits, you’re more apt to get a brochure than a bag of chips or a notebook, so traffic at these booths tends to be sporatic at best. Corporations typically come laden with all sorts of schwag to hand off to the greedy consumer masses, whose hearts swell at the thought of collecting “free stuff. In fact, attendees are given tote bags as they check in, semi-filled with product samples, to allow for the the collection of all sorts of promotional items and snack foods.

This year, the organization I went with brought a “wheel of philanthropy.”  It’s essentially a prize wheel.  The majority of the slots were filled with ice breaker questions  like, “How do you serve your community?,”  “How do you pamper yourself?” and “Who inspires you?”  The questions are meant to open up a dialogue, so that we can ultimately point out the benefits of membership.  But 2 of the landing spaces offered raffle tickets (for a 1-year membership and a $100 gift card to a Los Angeles area skin spa chain), and 2 others offered up a free lip gloss.

Clearly, the Programs Manager struck gold.  That wheel drew women in like flies to honey, since a good spin could land you a free lip gloss or an entry into a raffle.  We had a steady line of women throughout the day (nonprofits generally don’t get lines without a celebrity assist), waiting to spin that wheel.  Those landing on the raffle ticket spots didn’t even need to know what we were giving away, before they gladly signed up for our mailing list and a chance to win something, anything.  Our presence at the conference meant hundreds of new names on the mailing list.

After a day and half working the conference, I’ve drawn two polar opposite conclusions.

On the one hand, the women in attendance were incredibly dedicated to their communities.  I talked to social workers, grad students of social work, teachers and mentors through Big Brothers/Sisters.  One remained a member of the local parent teacher organization, though she has no kids left in the system.  Others served on charity boards, raised funds to provide a constructive environment for women recently released from prison and ran drives to collect suits for low income women looking for work.  Some volunteered at soup kitchens or animal shelters. They led Bible study sessions and soup kitchens, led scout troops and ran marathons for medical research. Most women remained actively involved in multiple community service projects and seemed unimpressed by their own remarkable contributions to society.

Community organizing in its many incarnations is natural to the women in attendance.  They’re at a leadership conference, so I should have expected to hear about this devotion beyond self.

Alternately, I’m rather dismayed by the behavior of a fairly large minority of women at the conference who looked at the exhibit hall as a freebie take-all. When a company brings product samples, it doesn’t mean take 5 since they’re sitting out in the open.  Self control and moderation should kick in at some point, as you realize you’re not the only person in the exhibition hall.

By the end of the conference, my booth’s volunteers were a bit flabberghasted.  Women salivating over the lip glosses, asking “are these free?”  The disappointment clearly stamped across their faces when they were told “no, you need to ‘spin and win.’”  Women who upon landing a question space, not a free lip gloss, turned and walked away, ignoring those staffing the table. The woman who tried to covertly grab an entire handful of lip products, not just one, surprised to find herself foiled by an eagle-eye volunteer who explained they aren’t samples.  The women who strategically stay and chat for a few minutes about the thought-provoking question they landed on, before picking up a lip gloss and saying, “come on, I can take one, right?,” suggesting with their eyes that yes, I played your game, now give me what I want.

And my personal favorite, the woman who approached at the end of the day Wednesday, refusing to make eye contact with any of the volunteers, who tries to help herself to the remaining lip glosses. She summed up the attitude of that minority of gluttonous women who tried to stock up like  Christmas came early.

Our exchange, emphasis mine:

Me: I’m sorry. Those aren’t freebies.

Lady: It’s the end of the event; you have to get rid of them.

Me: Actually, we don’t. We’re a non-profit.

Lady: Oh (with disdain)You’re going to take them back with you.

Me: Yes we are. We can use them at another event.

Lady: looks longingly one last time at the lip gloss (ironically, the shade Goddess) before turning abruptly and heading towards the exit. No “spin and win” for her.

Since I had the opportunity to sit in on one of the panel sessions, I am trying to convince myself that this ballsy minority merely found itself overwhelmed by the exhibition hall.  The moderated discussions taking place at the Conference Hall were intense and served to inspire us all to do more.  We just have to find a place to store all the pens, notebooks, highlighters, charm necklaces, snack food packages and cosmetic samples first.

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Recipe: Tasty Soft Pretzels from Scratch

Almost 2 months ago, Joy the Baker posted a recipe for Seasoned Soft Pretzels at her blog.  They looked super tasty.

After 4.5 years in Los Angeles, I’ve yet to find a soft pretzel that matches that of street vendors in Philadelphia or NYC, both of which I’m fond.

Since I had no plans this evening, I decided to make give the pretzels a whirl using white whole wheat flour instead of all-purpose flour.

They came out a bit browner than I’d have liked, so in the future I’ll cut back on baking time. Nonetheless, they’re yummy. And Joy’s suggestion of white whole wheat instead of whole wheat flour meant no “healthy flavor” overkill.

I used McCormick Asian Style Spiced Sea Salt for added flavor.  The seasoning blend includes garlic, ginger, orange peel, coconut, red bell pepper and sesame seeds.

Since the recipe yields 8 pretzels, and I’m but one person, I’m parbaking 4 of the pretzels without seasoning.  Once they cool I’m going to freeze them for fall afternoons when I want a light snack.

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VOD: Procrastination

Tales of Mere Existence by Lev Yilmaz

How you lose an entire day. . . procrastination

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VOD: Primate waitstaff

You know the economy is tanking when even monkeys are picking up side jobs.

Is such “work” exploitive of monkeys?  Can a monkey be a consentual employee? What is fair pay for a monkey?

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QOD: Emerson on Success

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Success:

To laugh often and much, to win the respect of intelligent people and
the affection of children, to earn the appreciation of honest critics
and endure the betrayal of false friends, to appreciate beauty, to find
the best in others, to leave the world a bit better, whether by a
healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know
even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.  This is to
have succeeded!

~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Tim Wise: This is Your Nation On White Privilege

Jill over at Writes Like She Talks recommends that bloggers “spread Tim Wise’s article, ‘This is Your Nation on White Privilege,’ far and wide.”

I’m happy to help the cause.

This election season has demonstrated the profound double standards in our country in regards to gendered personality traits, qualifications, character, and experience.  Obama’s March speech on race is just the tip of the ice berg in terms of conversations that need to be had about how our race defines us and what privileges and challenges our genetic makeup hands us.

Whether or not you plan to vote for Barack Obama in November, we need to acknowledge that all Americans aren’t equal, yet.  The repeated and prolonged attacks on Barack Obama throughout the primary and general election periods are not just about politics.  Every challenge made of Sarah Palin’s qualifications can’t simply be written off as sexism and sour grapes over a personable Phyllis Schlafly 2.0.

There’s this false notion that nearly 150 years after slavery was outlawed in America, that race is no longer an issue.  Throughout the country ballot wars are raged against the continuation of affirmative action in employment and education systems.  People insist that the sins of their fathers, are not their own.    Sadly, the civil rights movement of the 1960s shifted our culture some, but not enough.

Here are a few of  Tim Wise’s observations on white privilege:

For those who still can’t grasp the concept of white privilege, or who are constantly looking for some easy-to-understand examples of it, perhaps this list will help.

White privilege is when you can get pregnant at seventeen like Bristol Palin and everyone is quick to insist that your life and that of your family is a personal matter, and that no one has a right to judge you or your parents, because “every family has challenges,” even as black and Latino families with similar “challenges” are regularly typified as irresponsible, pathological and arbiters of social decay.

White privilege is when you can attend four different colleges in six years like Sarah Palin did (one of which you basically failed out of, then returned to after making up some coursework at a community college), and no one questions your intelligence or commitment to achievement, whereas a person of color who did this would be viewed as unfit for college, and probably someone who only got in in the first place because of affirmative action.

White privilege is when you can claim that being mayor of a town smaller than most medium-sized colleges, and then Governor of a state with about the same number of people as the lower fifth of the island of Manhattan, makes you ready to potentially be president, and people don’t all piss on themselves with laughter, while being a black U.S. Senator, two-term state Senator, and constitutional law scholar, means you’re “untested.”

…White privilege is being able to have a husband who was a member of an extremist political party that wants your state to secede from the Union, and whose motto was “Alaska first,” and no one questions your patriotism or that of your family, while if you’re black and your spouse merely fails to come to a 9/11 memorial so she can be home with her kids on the first day of school, people immediately think she’s being disrespectful.

Click through for the full piece. Your thoughts?  Pass it on.

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