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In the latest edition of McKinsey & Company’s quarterly journal, several consultants expound upon the facets of “model centered leadership,” a type of they’ve identified through extensive interviewing of successful business leaders (primarily women) around the world, from a variety of industries.
it’s about having a well of physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual strength that drives personal achievement and, in turn, inspires others to follow.
There are five key elements according to their research that can help women shift from mere worker to office leader. As you read, consider how each factors into your work persona and the office politics you engage in.
Meaning
Haven’t we all be told that we should follow our passions; the money will follow? When you’re getting out of bed 5+ days a week to work on projects that light a fire under you, you’re more attentive and dedicated.
Additionally, tapping into your strengths should allow you to enjoy your time at the office.
People seeking to define what is meaningful can start, as one interviewee put it, by “being honest with yourself about what you’re good at and what you enjoy doing.” Building these signature strengths into everyday activities at work makes you happier, in part by making these activities more meaningful.
Managing Energy
Ever get totally lost in an assignment and before you know it, the day is over? Is that more the norm than a rarity? If so, consider yourself lucky. Employees that get caught in “flow” are “more productive and derived greater satisfaction from their work than those who did not.” They’re just as jazzed at the end of the day as when they started.
If you aren’t so lucky as to enjoy “flow,” you still need to find time for a mental and spiritual regroup when you start fading during the work day. Meditate, stretch, take a walk around the block, anything to take your mind off work for a brief respite.
In fact, you might even talk your employer into providing a power nap space for you and your fellow workers as midday naps are increasingly linked to improved brain function when it came to recall and rote activity, as well as lower risk of heart attack.
Positive Framing
Positive psychology is all the rage. Martin’s Seligman, from the University of Pennsylvania invites people to take a variety of online quizzes determining your positive quotient. A new Harvard/UC San Diego study finds that happiness rubs off on the people around you, so just surrounding yourself with a happy network of people should boost that sentiment within. Older studies find happy people live longer.
In a similar vein, McKinsey’s researcher found positive framing makes for more proactive leaders who aren’t overwhelmed by failure, but who instead look for the opportunity to turn a situation around. Positive framing “accepts the facts of adversity and counters them with action.”
If a meeting goes badly, for example, you should limit your thoughts about it to its temporary and specific impact and keep them impersonal. It helps to talk with trusted colleagues about the reasons for the poor meeting and ways to do better next time. These discussions should take place quickly enough for you to make a specific plan and act on it. You should also undertake some activity that will restore both your energy and your faith in yourself
Connecting
Over and over we hear it’s not what you know, it’s who you know. And to make it as a mover and shaker one needs to cast a pretty wide net. Past research shows that
People with strong networks and good mentors enjoy more promotions, higher pay, and greater career satisfaction.
Does the type of networking matter? Evidence is increasingly showing that men and women network differently.
men tend to build broader, shallower networks than women do and that the networks of men give them a wider range of resources for gaining knowledge and professional opportunities.
A women’s focus on building strong relationships isn’t necessarily an asset if you have a great action plan, but don’t have a diverse enough base of contacts to put that plan into play. So when scheduling those first networking events of 2009, try to go to a few outside your comfort zone and meet people in a different industry. You never know when those casual acquaintances could come in handy.
Interestingly, McKinsey researchers found that unlike men, women don’t innately embrace the concept of “reciprocity”. When someone reaches out to help you, it’s standard to return the favor. In fact, making the assist first is more apt to get you the aid you want or need.
I refer back to my own Golden Rule of Networking: when making new connections, I’m always thinking about what I can do for the people I meet; frequently it means making introductions to other people I know. The same is true when trying to get ahead in the work place. How can you make a positive impression that serves your supervisor or senior management.
Though I can’t find the post at the moment, a blogger recently shared his uses of google alerts to impress a senior level executive in his company. He subscribed to a number of feeds relevant to the competition and the market place, pulling out the key news pieces each week. He sent a weekly news round up to that senior executive. The blogger took action that is useful to the senior level executive who now thinks of Joe Blogger at least once a week when that news round up dings in his in box.
Given the Old Boys’ Network, men are well aware of the notion that if you scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours. Ladies, we need to own that very same philosophy.
These connections and cross-promotional efforts are what drive networking organizations like Ladies Who Launch, Downtown Women’s Club, Step Up Women’s Network and Success in the City.. Organizations and networking groups like these exist in major cities across the US. Take some time to google the opportunities in your city.
Engaging
Your next promotion isn’t going to come to you, you need to create the environment to make it happen. Speak up and contribute at staff meetings. Document your successes and the company cost savings you’re responsible for. If you won’t champion yourself, who will?
Women need to be willing to take risks and “‘create their own luck‘” to get noticed. Some of us are willing to take the leap based on our gut, others take more calculated shots, but we need to engage with colleagues and supervisors to take it to the next level.
Final Thoughts
After reading through the five characteristics of model centered leadership, it was pretty obvious to me that connecting comes naturally to me (as evidenced by the lengthy pontification on that subject above.)
On the other hand, I hate taking risks unless I’m pretty sure I’m right. I typically would rather stay silent than risk being wrong; it’s a behavior that’s made me a stellar observer. However, I’m going to make a more conscious effort to be daring in my decision making.
Did any of the above traits resonate with you? Which seem the most foreign?
and can turn their every interaction into a schmooze fest. I liken these individuals to the Party Animal. The PA gets buzzed off of the potential in room full of strangers. They’re charming, charismatic, and EVERYONE knows their name. It doesn’t matter if there are 50 or 500 people at the event in question, the PA is going to exchange cards and handshakes with as many of them as possible. At the end of the night, the PA has a tower of business cards and a lot of secondary meetups to schedule.
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